Sometimes your present to others is your presence. Just be there in the moment, not looking to solve problems or offer your expertise, just be.
Let them know you are there for them, not for you or your plans and ideas.
Here is a great way to know if you are practicing this. Who is doing the most talking?
Be quite, be still, be attentive and show them you are Gods child who loves them very much.
SHHHHH!
