Have you ever just slowed down enough during the day and just watched and listened to other people? Once you can come away from your own desire to be seen and heard, you can start to appreciate others.
Give it a try. With no agenda but science and learning to see and listen to other people. Sit and watch and listen to others. Resist the notion to build a story for the person in your head. Resist the notion to fix them. Just watch their body language and listen to their spoken language.
What an amazing way to “die”.
I hope you learn something about the other person and the act of dying to self.