“I know that you do not have the love of God in you.”
These are stinging words from Jesus. How often during your week could He say the same about you? How about per day? Per hour?
We are to be in constant contact with God through out the day, not for His benefit and not for our benefit, but for the benefit of others. To walk and talk constantly with the Lord will put the love of God in you. When the love of God is in love you will give it away to others.